1 Feb, 2023

Ask Nicole: I’m Uncomfortable Working with Certain Clients

By |2023-02-01T12:23:36-05:00February 1st, 2023|Categories: Public Health & Social Work|Tags: , , , , |0 Comments

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In the early years of my social work career, I had a large caseload of individuals from various backgrounds and needs.

Some clients were more challenging to work with than others, but I’d say I got along well with everyone I worked with.

Yet sometimes, I didn’t click with every person I worked with. However, these experiences were easier to navigate when I made the decision to focus on the client’s needs as opposed to my personal feelings towards them.

There were moments, however, where I was uncomfortable working with certain clients. Mainly male clients who disclosed (either in sessions with me or in their intake assessment with another colleague) their history of violence towards women.

I shared my feelings during supervision one day, only for my supervisor to share this with another colleague. Needless to say, this didn’t help matters. I was looking for guidance on working with clients that, based on experiences that had nothing to do with me, I didn’t want to work with due to my own personal values.

These days, I have more control over who I work with, but I want to provide some insights I learned during that time that may be useful. While you don’t have to like a client to do your job as a social worker, it’s harder to do a good job when you actively dislike them.

In your personal life, you’re more likely to go above and beyond for someone you like. It’s harder to do this for someone you don’t like.

In a professional setting, you can’t really get away with this. Sometimes, these relationships improve over time, but when you find yourself not wanting to work with a client, here’s some guidance:

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13 Oct, 2021

Ask Nicole: Prepping for Your Consultant/Partner Discovery Call

By |2021-11-03T09:19:47-04:00October 13th, 2021|Categories: Consulting|Tags: , , , , |0 Comments

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After searching the internet, asking your networks for referrals, and scouring social media, you’ve finally found someone or a team that you can see your organization working with.

Checking out their website, social media presence, and testimonials is the first step.

The next step is scheduling a “discovery call”.

A discovery call is an initial conversation you have to determine whether you will be a good fit. It’s an opportunity to do a deep dive into your project/event, and get a sense of what it would be like to work together.

I normally don’t go in completely unaware. For my process, prospective partners and clients fill out my questionnaire form. After I scan to make sure their project falls into my focus areas and what they’re looking for is something I can help with, and they pass my “do I actually want to work with them?” scan, I set up a discovery call, specifying this as a preliminary call to determine if we will be a good fit.

Of course, you won’t know what it’ll be like until you actually start working together, but you can look for red flags as well as see if they understand your vision. Here are some tips for prepping for your discovery call:

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7 Jul, 2021

Ask Nicole: I Have Too Many Clients (!!!)

By |2021-08-19T21:10:19-04:00July 7th, 2021|Categories: Consulting|Tags: , , |0 Comments

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This month’s Ask Nicole question comes from Sylvia, a public health professional who recently stepped out into the world of full time consulting as her consulting client roster has started to skyrocket:

What do you do when you find that you have too many clients?? Sounds ridiculous, as I’m sure this is a “problem” many consultants would love to have. I’m a solopreneur and I’m still establishing myself and my business systems. I’ve taken on more projects than I probably should have, and while this will prove to be a lesson learned for the future, I’m curious to hear from you on how you’ve tackled this.

Sylvia’s right.

Complaining about having too many clients does sound weird to someone who wishes they had even one client.

And I’m sure Sylvia did it in order to jump fully into her business so that she could leave her 9-to-5 behind. Building my client portfolio was a primary focus for me too, for both experience and confidence.

So… how many clients is “too many”?

Well, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. However, when your client roster feels overwhelming, consider the following common culprits. I’ve considered for myself when I start questioning my own client roster, and hopefully you can discover which one(s) are causing you to take on more clients than you should:

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7 Oct, 2020

Ask Nicole: My Best & Worst Client Experiences

By |2021-08-19T20:57:32-04:00October 7th, 2020|Categories: Consulting|Tags: , |0 Comments

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As we head closer to the end of 2020, I’m starting to think about where I want my business to go and who I want to be, have, and experience in 2021.

Considering we’re still in the middle of a pandemic, it feels futile to plan anything out. Nevertheless, I’ve been thinking about the types of client and partnership opportunities I’ve had in the past year. With each year that passes, my projects and client interactions become more complex. I’ve developed a routine that affords me to be more intentional about who I work with, but that didn’t come without any hiccups.

I took my own advice and evaluated each project using the following prompts:

  • How did I feel about this project overall?
  • How did I feel about my role in this project?
  • How did I feel while working with this client/partner?

As I reflected on this year’s projects, I also thought of prior projects and decided it would be fun to share two experiences that I consider my best and my worst time working with clients.

Because I’m focusing on me, I won’t be naming the specific clients nor the focus of the projects (because that’s messy), but If you’ve been a reader of my blog over the years, you should know that my client projects tend to fall somewhere in the sexual and reproductive health, rights, or justice space, young women’s empowerment, and the like. I’ll focus instead on what I learned during these processes and how they’ve shaped my process in being intentional of who I work with, what I take on, and how I choose to work.

Let’s start with the worst client experience:

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1 May, 2019

Ask Nicole: How Can I Convince Clients to Focus on the Process AND the Outcome?

By |2021-08-19T20:32:56-04:00May 1st, 2019|Categories: Consulting|Tags: , , |0 Comments

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Tammy, a licensed independent clinical social worker and consultant based in the Pacific Northwest, recently sent me a really thoughtful email. Tammy writes:

Hi Nicole, 

First, I just want to thank you for writing your blog, and let you know upfront that this is one of those, “Thank you! I needed to read your website.” kinda emails.

In consulting work, I feel like I’m going to struggle with communicating how design-based thinking and evidence-based decision making (and not necessarily Evidence-Based Programs (EBP)) could be really powerful tools for organizations. Where I live, the agencies that design their own programs are often bootstrapped for cash; and the ones with money will just purchase a curriculum and send their staff to a national training on how to implement that curriculum. To get funding for a lot of things out here, you need to use an EBP. I’m a big fan of evidence-based decision-making processes, but I think most pre-packaged evidence-based programs (at least that I’ve worked with) are like disempowering wet bandaids that never really stick! It seems like most organizations are more willing to pay someone else to train their staff to implement a very structured program that’s already been created than they are to work with someone to design a program that really suits their needs, strengths, and resources (even when they acknowledge they probably would do a better job than the pre-made curriculum!)

So, the question is: how do you help people realize the potential for design-based thinking and evidence-based decision making processes in a non-profit/agency world that has become relatively disempowered in the realm of program design? Have you run into that at all with your consulting work focused on program design? If so, how do you navigate that conversation? 

A few months ago, a prospective client organization came to me about a project opportunity. I had some initial conversations with the client, but I got the sense that what they wanted and what my process is weren’t in alignment.

It was confirmed when the client asked me to further explain one key aspect of my process. The aspect–something that the client initially agreed with and wanted to be included in my proposal–focuses on participatory processes between myself, the staff, and key stakeholders. The client seemed less interested in this aspect and wanted me to tailor my approach to just outcomes.

Over the past year, I’ve developed more of an interest in working with clients to develop, evaluate, and refine their process versus solely focuses on outcomes. So, I knew deep down this wasn’t the project (or the client) for me.

The bulk of my consulting as of late has centered around evaluation, with design thinking included depending on the work scope. I’ve found that clients who’ve hired me to evaluate a specific program have been more rigid in what takes place in our time working together compared to clients that hired me specifically for capacity building purposes that span all of their programs and services.

This comes down to whether the client is focused more on the process or the outcome. Based on my observation, when client organizations are focused solely on outcomes, they’re confined to certain parameters that may be heavily influenced by a funder, things being “evidence-based”, or a deadline. As a result, I have more flexibility with clients that have hired me for building organizational capacity and learning about their programming in a more exploratory manner.

Outcomes center around aspects of a program that led to data that can be reported on, including the number of participants and how they engaged with the program. A more process-centered approach assesses how the program was developed, how it got to where it currently is, and what factors along the way got it there (including staff capacity.)

Ideally, you’d develop a process that addresses both. However, the approach the client wants to take can ultimately decide if you’re going to have a great time partnering with this client or spend most of your time arguing back and forth.

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