4 Nov, 2020

Ask Nicole: The Best Time to Look for a Consultant

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The best time to look for a consultant is before you need a consultant.

An observation I’ve made in the past few years is that nonprofits and organizations look for a consultant when they come across an opportunity to fund a project, and that’s not the most effective way to find someone.

It’s not effective because now you have to either 1) create a request for proposals, sit back, and receive responses from a lot of people who may not be a good fit (which may prompt you to continue to look for someone); o r2) ask around for someone who can do the tasks, contact them, and see whether the people you’ve contacted are even available to work with you.

The best time to look for a consultant is before you need a consultant, and here’s why:

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7 Oct, 2020

Ask Nicole: My Best & Worst Client Experiences

By |2021-08-19T20:57:32-04:00October 7th, 2020|Categories: Consulting|Tags: , |0 Comments

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As we head closer to the end of 2020, I’m starting to think about where I want my business to go and who I want to be, have, and experience in 2021.

Considering we’re still in the middle of a pandemic, it feels futile to plan anything out. Nevertheless, I’ve been thinking about the types of client and partnership opportunities I’ve had in the past year. With each year that passes, my projects and client interactions become more complex. I’ve developed a routine that affords me to be more intentional about who I work with, but that didn’t come without any hiccups.

I took my own advice and evaluated each project using the following prompts:

  • How did I feel about this project overall?
  • How did I feel about my role in this project?
  • How did I feel while working with this client/partner?

As I reflected on this year’s projects, I also thought of prior projects and decided it would be fun to share two experiences that I consider my best and my worst time working with clients.

Because I’m focusing on me, I won’t be naming the specific clients nor the focus of the projects (because that’s messy), but If you’ve been a reader of my blog over the years, you should know that my client projects tend to fall somewhere in the sexual and reproductive health, rights, or justice space, young women’s empowerment, and the like. I’ll focus instead on what I learned during these processes and how they’ve shaped my process in being intentional of who I work with, what I take on, and how I choose to work.

Let’s start with the worst client experience:

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1 Jul, 2020

Ask Nicole: How Can I Raise My Voice When No One is Around to Hear Me?

By |2021-08-19T20:53:38-04:00July 1st, 2020|Categories: Equity & Justice|Tags: , |0 Comments

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I received an overwhelming number of responses from one of my recent blog posts, “Your Values Always Come at a Cost“. So much so, that the majority of that post’s comments came directly from subscribers to my Raise Your Voice newsletter via email replies.

This comment came from Amanda, a public health student:

One thing that’s given me solace during this time is that so many people are looking for Black voices, in all professional fields. And I want to capitalize on that! Your quote “There should be no question where you stand and you should only want to surround yourself with people who share the same values” really resonated with me. As I matriculate through my MPH program, I’m discovering the importance of raising my voice, as you always remind us to do. But I feel like, no matter what I try to bring awareness to, no one hears me. I know that I have to promote myself in creative ways outside of the traditional resume, and I’ve been utilizing social media to share my thoughts on issues I care about. But I feel discouraged because, between Instagram and Twitter, I don’t have many followers (combined it’s like around 700 total). How can I raise my voice when no one is around to hear me? Hardly anyone likes, retweets, or comments on my posts. Is it because what I’m saying isn’t resonating or that I’m not articulating myself in a way that would make people want to listen to me?

My consulting business began as a Tumblr blog. I used that blog as an outlet to share my thoughts on what eventually became my business’ vision, mission, and core services.

Over the years, I’ve slowly built up a social media following, where I’ve been more intentional about connecting, networking, and highlighting what I can do. But what I’ve learned along the way is that there’s more to building an audience than likes, shares, and retweets.

While these metrics can tell you how you’re resonating with your audience, unless you ask every single person why they’re following you, these numbers don’t tell the full story. Some of the most engaged followers you’ll have are the ones that don’t do these actions, but they’re still paying close attention.

I would consider myself to have a small social media following, but while promoting myself on social media as been part of the job, I’ve never landed a client based on something I’ve posted on social media.

How did they find me? They either asked around or they Googled something and came across one of my blog posts. Possibly an older blog post in which my voice and message weren’t as strong as it is today. They perused my blog and website and noticed how my voice has evolved and strengthened over time. I’m also sure my Raise Your Voice newsletter subscribers who have been around since my first newsletter have noticed this as well.

I took the time to get clear on who I am and how I wanted to show up for my audience, especially my clients. I wanted to position myself so that a prospective client could look at me and say, “She’s the right person for the job”.

Raise your voice regardless of the size of your audience. Use this time to strengthen your voice and message for the followers who are here right now.

The last thing you want is to suddenly gain an influx of followers and you haven’t strengthened your voice and message.

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7 Feb, 2020

Ask Nicole: How Do I Decide Whether or Not to Give Up?

By |2021-08-19T20:46:47-04:00February 7th, 2020|Categories: Consulting|Tags: , |0 Comments

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Have you ever deconstructed the lyrics to a song?

I did that recently with Beyoncé’s Ring the Alarm from her 2006 album B’Day. In particular, the chorus/hook of the song.

If you’re not familiar, Ring the Alarm is about a woman contemplating whether to persist with a relationship that isn’t serving her versus walking away into the unknown (or in this case, with the understanding that she may be giving up on things that she’s grown accustomed to. Like Chinchilla coats, a Benz and the house off the coast, among other things.

Let’s look at it from a logic standpoint versus an emotional standpoint.

Logically, it doesn’t make sense to stay with someone that’s not treating you with respect. But emotionally, we’ve all lived through experiences where giving something up (in this case, a relationship) feels far scarier than ending it and going it alone. Plus, who wants to start all over?

I was asked recently if I’d ever gotten to a point where I wanted to call it quits from my consulting business. Yes I’ve gotten to this point plenty of times! I was also asked how did I know to stick with it.

Logically, I knew that I could always get another job. I had been with my agency for almost 6 years and it took around 3 months to land that position after graduating from my MSW program. Now that I’m a licensed social worker, I assumed it would take roughly the same amount of time or even less.

Emotionally, I’ve put a lot of time and effort into building my business and despite knowing what I logically know, it would be hard to let it go.

I realized it’s less about the time and effort you give to something. It’s about identifying your perceived return on investment (ROI). Here’s another way to illustrate this:

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15 Jan, 2020

Ask Nicole: Why Did You Move from New York City to Washington, DC?

By |2021-08-19T20:46:24-04:00January 15th, 2020|Categories: Miscellaneous|Tags: , |0 Comments

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After 11 years in New York City, I moved to Washington, DC, on December 30, 2019.

I’ve only been here for about 2 weeks, but in that short time, I’ve been asked a variation of the question above.

This has been a decision I debated for over a year, and understanding the privilege I have of being self-employed with no dependents and having the ability to pick up and go, it was a decision I didn’t take likely but also a decision that I wanted to make unapologetically.

For the past 2-3 years, I traveled between my home away from home (New York City) and my actual home (Atlanta), and in the process, I realized that something was missing in both locations.

I relocated from Atlanta to New York City in August 2008 for graduate school, and while the plan was to only be there to complete my degree, I decided to stay because I felt that there was something I needed to prove to not only myself to everyone else. I wanted to prove that I could make it away from home, and while there were plenty of hiccups along the way, I succeeded in that.

I went from seeing New York City as the only place I could ever see myself to realizing that, as exciting as the city is, I needed to be in a place that has a slower pace. But when I would go home, I didn’t feel that I belong there any more than I did in New York.

I also noticed my quality of life started to take a dive. For many, the cost of living, housing, job opportunities, schools, and more play a factor in measuring a city’s quality of life, but for me, I wanted mentally present anymore in both New York and Atlanta.

So, why Washington, DC? Ultimately, I chose DC because it represented to me something I no longer had in New York and I couldn’t find in Atlanta.

I wanted a new beginning.

And like Goldilocks, when New York started to become too much and Atlanta felt not enough, being in DC feels just right.

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